House of Mercy Children's Home, Lagos, Nigeria (HOM)

Child Abuse is Everyone’s Problem

A significant number of people believe child abuse is an appalling crime that happens to someone else. As far as they are concerned, it is somebody else’s problem. However, given the prevalence of child abuse, child abuse is everyone’s problem and the more we turn away from its reality in our society, the more we close our minds to being educated on the horrors of child abuse.


Most child abuse occurs within the family and a majority of children we have been privileged to serve and work with over the years report having been victims of some form of child abuse. Although it is certainly true that child abuse also occurs outside the home – in schools, in religious settings, in state institutions and in the community, – most often children are abused by someone they know and by someone they see every day.


The impact of child abuse on children can be long term and damaging and those who were abused as children are far more likely to become offenders, thus perpetuating generations of dysfunction and denial.


It takes a village to raise a child and as members of the wider community, we all have a role to play in ensuring that children are safe from violence, abuse, molestation and harassment. Sharing  responsibility  for  the  care  and  protection  of  children  helps  to  ensure  that  all  children  are  safe  from  harm and are cared for in a way that allows them to reach their full potential.


Child abuse and neglect can happen to any child but children with disabilities, children without the care and protection of a family and child domestic workers are at greater risk of maltreatment including sexual abuse, child labour, trafficking, bullying and emotionally violent child discipline.


Parents who place their children as domestics in the households of strangers are naively convinced that the promise of a better life and education represents a genuine opportunity for their girls and is also a panacea for their own problems. They fail to realise that the isolation of child domestic workers from their own families and communities, lack of self-esteem, illiteracy, and possibly pregnancy as a consequence of sexual abuse, frequently lead to the descent into prostitution of a child domestic worker dismissed for the most cursory of reasons.


Another alarming trend has been the increase in the number of children sold by their biological parents around the country. It beggars belief! It seems the extreme poverty and misery in which so many Nigerians are plunged into have distorted their thinking patterns and led them to resort to negative coping mechanisms to survive.


Protecting children from commercial sexual exploitation, worst forms of child labour, child trafficking and migration and child abuse is a very important aspect of our work at House of Mercy Children’s Home, Lagos, Nigeria (HOM).


In an attempt to trigger action and create a safer society for children, we published a video entitled Stop Child Abuse. The video is available in English and French on our video gallery and on our YouTube channel.


On International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women & Girls, November 25, 2021, we launched a video titled “Stop violence against Girls” to sensitise and mobilise communities to take concrete action against the abuse and exploitation of girls such as school kidnappings, forced domestic servitude, child marriage, child prostitution, child pornography, child trafficking, traditional harmful practices and sexual violence committed against girls during armed conflicts. The video is available in English, French, Spanish and Portuguese on on our YouTube channel.


We encourage others to play an active role in helping to change practices and attitudes, raise awareness and combat violence against children by sharing these videos with their family, friends and colleagues.


Our message to perpetrators of child abuse is STOP IT NOW and seek professional help immediately! Child abuse is not a problem child abusers and molesters can handle on their own, outside forces are usually necessary to get offenders to come to grips with the inappropriate behaviour and break through their denial system. But understand this, if you are a child abuser, there will be no place for you to hide.


Child Abuse: An Ounce of Prevention Is Worth a Pound of Cure

An ounce of prevention truly is worth a pound of cure! The most effective way of protecting children from all forms of abuse and exploitation is prevention. It is generally acknowledged that it is better to take steps to prevent child abuse, neglect and exploitation than to deal with its consequences.


Child safety and prevention activities include confronting child abuse before it occurs by

  • Teaching children to protect themselves and recognise, resist and report abuse.
  • Working with families to stop the root causes of child abuse and neglect.
  • Strengthening parenting skills and promoting positive parenting practices through parenting education as well as crisis intervention and counselling.
  • Providing training for child care providers, health workers, teachers, police, local authorities and community leaders to strengthen their knowledge and skills to identify and respond to child protection risks including referrals of affected children to appropriate care and rehabilitation services.
  • Organising activities directed at changing attitudes and social behaviours of parents, child care providers, teachers, religious leaders and community leaders through advocacy and behaviour change campaigns.
  • Tackling deeply ingrained assumptions that child domestic work is an accepted and expected practice especially for girls. Although no single intervention can address the complexity of the issues affecting child domestic workers, the current and future situation of children traded into domestic servitude is dependent on changes in public attitudes and private behaviour of those in a position to employ, and potentially to exploit children.
  • Promoting awareness about the prevalence of child abuse and educating the public on the horrors of child abuse.
  • Awareness campaigns through television, radio and social media must be carried out to eliminate this shameful scourge of child-selling. Besides severely punishing parents involved in child-selling to deter others, it will require political will, courage and determination by political leaders to create conditions that lift people out of poverty and enable them to live in dignity.

Child abuse is often a taboo topic but given the alarming and growing numbers of child abuse and neglect cases, there is a need for accelerated action to tackle the issue of child abuse.


Children need advocates; individuals who are willing to take simple and ordinary actions that prevent violence and abuse before it happens and prevent further violence and abuse in children at risk of it.


Reporting Child Abuse is Everyone’s Responsibility

Reporting child abuse or neglect is the responsibility of anyone who sees or suspects it. If you have a reason to suspect a child is experiencing harm or is in danger of abuse, neglect, incest, sexual abuse, child battering, child-selling, child labour or child trafficking or if you are a victim of child abuse, please notify the appropriate agencies :


1. Lagos State Ministry Of Youth And Social Development (Child Protection Unit)

Provides Protection Services to the vulnerable members of the society – Youth, Children, Persons Living with Disabilities, Orphaned and the Elderly.

Address: Block 7 &18, The Lagos State Secretariat, Alausa, Ikeja, Lagos.

Tel No: 08096777389     

Email: [email protected]


2. Lagos State Domestic And Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT)

Responds to the   incidents of rape, defilement, domestic violence, and child abuse in Lagos State.

Address: Block 2, Ministry of Justice, Secretariat, Alausa, Ikeja, Lagos.

Tel No: 112 | 0813 796 0048 

Dial *6820# or Text  6820 using keyword – child abuse (Toll free)

Email: [email protected]


3. The National Agency For The Prohibition Of Trafficking In Persons (NAPTIP)

Responds to the prevention of all form of human degradation and exploitation to stamp out human trafficking.

Address – Lagos Zonal Office: Oba Ladejobi, Near Police College, G.R.A Ikeja, Lagos.

Email: [email protected]             

Tel No: 07080601801


4. National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP)

Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti State



5. National Agency NAPTIP

18B Ekulu West

Behind Parklane Hospital



6. National Human Rights Commission (NHRC)

Serves as an extra-judicial mechanism for the enhancement of human rights. It also provides avenues for public enlightenment, research and dialogue on human rights issues.

South West Zonal Office: 13A Ladipo Bataye Street, G.R.A Ikeja, Lagos

Hotline: 08054707559

Email: [email protected]     


7. Office Of The Public Defender (OPD)

Provides free legal services – legal advice and representation in criminal and civil cases to the indigent, vulnerable and defenseless citizens of the State; especially cases of rape, child abuse or child neglect.

Head office: Iyun Street, Funsho Williams Way – Barracks or Stadium Bus Stop, Western Avenue, Surulere, Lagos.

Ikorodu Office: 130, Lagos Road – Jumofak Bus Stop Ikorodu, Lagos.

Tel No: 01-89755751 | 01-7926930 | 01-7210890  | 112 | 0813 796 0048

Tollfree number: 07080601080

E-mail: [email protected] 


8. Child Protection Network Lagos

E-mail: [email protected] | [email protected]

Tel No:08065841438 | 07089428326


9. Child Protection Network (CPN)       

Ekiti State



10. Child Protection Network (CPN)

Gbogan road Abere, Oshogbo

Osun State



11. Gender-based Violence Response Centre

Ministry of Women Affairs

Leopard Town Rd

Big Qua Town, Calabar

Cross-River State


12. Gender Desk Police Command GRA

Ikeja, Lagos State               

0906 288 7853


Please note that House of Mercy Children’s Home Lagos, Nigeria (HOM) does not accept responsibility for the accuracy of any information accessed outside our website or any information which is obtained from any such third party.


While not all suspicions of child abuse and neglect prove true, protecting vulnerable children is certainly worth the risk. Doing nothing while a child could be suffering is a far greater tragedy than the inaction of being wrong.


It is time for everyone to step forward and address this terrible epidemic. Children deserve nothing less than our constant focus on their safety, and our firm commitment to protect them from mental, physical, sexual and emotional abuse and neglect even if their parents or guardians are unwilling to do so.


“Throughout history, it has been the inaction of those who could have acted; the indifference of those who should have known better; the silence of the voice of justice when it mattered most; that has made it possible for evil to triumph.” ~ H.I.M Haile Selassie 1